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How do You Know if Someone Really Loves You


Love is something that most people aspire to attain during their lifetimes. There are many different types of love, of course: Platonic love, such as that shown to family members and friends, is an important emotion that stays with you through thick and thin. Love of an inanimate object or thing, such as a job, is important too in that it is what you do every day of your life to maintain your lifestyle and support your family and values. However, romantic love is, in many ways, the most important type of love that there is.
That is because romantic love is the thing that keeps our emotional health in balance and our mental health in check. Romantic love can be difficult to come by but is well worth the wait.

As you mature from your teenage years into adulthood, it becomes more important to begin thinking about what type of future you wish to have. Do you even want to have a partner to share your life with? Do you want someone to help you start a family, share life experiences and grow old with? What is it you are looking for in a life long partner? There are many men and women in the world who are just waiting for the perfect “someone” to come along but it isn’t always easy. And once you do find that person, how can you be sure he or she truly loves you? This might seem obvious, but often times it is not.

To be truthful, most relationships are built on initial impressions that the person presents upon your meeting: Appearance, subtle habits, professional aspirations, likes and dislikes all play a role in whether your interest is piqued or not. For instance, if you meet someone who meets all of your expectations except one- say, she or he is a brunette rather than the blonde you had hoped for- you may immediately decide that this person would not be of interest to you. If this is the case, than it will be hard to find someone who will fall as deeply in love with you and you will with them. Being too picky can easily eliminate a lot of great people out there. Therefore, you should decide right up front what you can and cannot live with. And you should also remember that often, love doesn’t hit you square in the face at first sight. Instead, it grows softly as time goes by. And this may be true of the person you are meeting.


Once a relationship is established, however, how do you know that the “love of your life” reciprocates your feelings? And after you have been together for awhile, do you think that perhaps your significant other is not as interested as he or she once was? Do you feel as if their love for you is waning? How can you tell if she or he is telling the truth when they assure you that they still love and adore you?


There are many telltale signs that indicate whether or not someone is telling the truth about their true feelings for you. Some indications that your partner may be pulling away are as follows:
1. Does he/she show less interest in your likes and dislikes than when you first met?
2. Does he/she refuse to join you in activities that you once enjoyed together?
3. Is there a general lack of interest in your work or activities?
4. Do you see a change in daily habits that your partner is involved in such as going out more with his/her friends, watching more TV late at night rather than coming to bed with you, talking or texting on the phone excessively, forgetting to do or participate in things he/she promised you would be done.
5. Is your loved one drinking more than usual or participating in drug use for the first time ever?

These are just a few of the things to look for in a relationship that may be floundering. This does not mean that there is no hope for things to get better. These are just warning signs that the relationship needs help, i.e. a marriage counselor or some other type of counseling such as a church social worker or a licensed psychologist.


On the other hand, there are many sure signs that your partner truly cares for you and loves you deeply. Some of these may be subtle, so you may need to look for them. These include:
1. Putting your needs before his/hers.
2. Helping with the household chores, whether you have requested their help or not.
3. Complimenting you on your appearance, your work, your choice of anything from clothing to furniture to the children’s wardrobe.
4. Doing little things that are totally unexpected: Flowers for no reason at all, a dinner out on the town, picking up a couple of good steaks for dinner instead of the hotdogs you had planned on fixing. Breakfast in bed is always good too.
5. Does he hold the door and is she appreciative when you do so? Both are good signs that love – and respect – are in tact.
6. Holding your hand in public and while watching a movie at home. It is always a good sign when your partner is proud to be seen with you and displays public (and private) affectiion without hesitation.
7. Includes you in planning vacations, parties, outings and major purchases. That shows you that your partner values your input and really cares what you think.
8. Truly approves of and enjoys the idea of your having friends and activities outside the partnership.
9. Laughs at your jokes, whether they are funny or not. Laughs with you and not at you!

Again, these are just a few of the telltale signs that love exists in your relationship. There are so many more, of course, if you only take the time to look.


Showing your significant other that you love them is an important part of any relationship. Anyone can ask their partner “Do you still love me?” but the answer may be positive and the actions not. These are things that you can look for every day of the week. Of course, the fireworks that initiated the relationship in the first place rarely continue as time progresses. However, they can be rekindled with frequent “time outs” such as regular small (or not so small!) vacations out of town, day trips to a place you both have always wanted to visit, having date nights on a regular basis (get a sitter who will be available on a certain day of the week, every week)…take in a movie, have a nice dinner, walk in the park. If you reside near a park or a body of water, take time to enjoy nature together. This is one of the best ways to wind down after a difficult week and enjoy one another by holding hands, having a picnic meal, walking along the shore. (If your partner has no interest in doing any of this, well, go back to the first list of items depicting signs of love lost and review it again).

The most important thing to remember about knowing that your partner loves you is communication. Make sure you talk about things that are bothering you as well as things that are making you happy in the relationship. Otherwise, problems can fester and explode in the future. Many divorces could be avoided if couples just took the time to talk their problems out with one another or with a professional counselor. True love is worth preserving and although it might seem so easy to just get a divorce, it is important to realize that giving up on a relationship that once meant so much to you is sort of like selling a fine car because it needs a tune up. And if there happens to be children involved, the love doesn’t end with you and your partner: You must take them into consideration. Their hearts will be broken and their worlds will be changed drastically.


If someone truly loves you, they will work hard to preserve the relationship you have built together. That in itself is probably the most important thing to remember when trying to determine whether or not your partner still loves you. They will respect your feelings about things that are important in your life: Family, finances, health and welfare of the members of your family, religious beliefs, tastes in music and other entertainment media as well as everyday things such as your love of an afternoon nap, your passion for nature, your preference for sharing the chores in the house equally. Love comes in many forms and is shown in many ways.

There is no one thing that will alert you to the fact that your significant other still cares for you and loves you. But with a little attention to detail, and a lot of communication between the two of you, it will become obvious to you just how much this relationship is worth saving.

{ 138 comments… add one }
  • Rahma Tijjan April 19, 2011, 9:06 pm

    it’s realy god to know about love, please i will like to now more throgh my mail just love

  • Angela May 4, 2011, 11:54 am

    I think with what i have ready i bealive my partner loves me so much

  • JOSHUA July 20, 2011, 9:10 am

    i never regret falling in love with my partner.from the lessons i was able to draw a conclusion that my partner loves me so much.

  • elaine August 7, 2011, 9:34 pm

    im still scared that i may get hurt by leting down my guard

  • Carley August 14, 2011, 8:11 am

    I am 14 I have been with my boyfreind for 7 months now and we talk about spending the rest of our lives together alot I know he truely loves me because he shows me he doesn’t just say I love you is that enough no he shows me by asking me how I feel and helping me with my small problems and we were each others first kiss and it was speacial and I truely belive we will be together for the rest of our lives despite what people say about teenage relationships and how they don’t last I love him and I want to be with him forever and I will be

  • kadija August 26, 2011, 12:13 pm

    with what I’ve read i believe that he do loves me…. but what bout the jealously part he always likes me to be staying indoors, to be near him always and doesn’t want me to be hanging around with ma friends that much.He easily gets angry when i mention the word out… or a wanna go out with ma friends could it be lack trust an for a lasting relationship there must be trust an i really do love him with all of my heart

  • Nsuh Norbert August 30, 2011, 11:43 am

    I dont really know how to pesevere in love and most of my relationships dont last

  • kimbo September 8, 2011, 4:37 pm

    its funny all shows that he loves me. And we have been through alot ups and downs.. Yet always been there for eachother and he shows me that he loves everyday.. Yet why did he cheat on me?

  • Andrew Butler October 29, 2011, 3:30 am

    How can an article that starts with a description of human existence as ‘lifetimes’ be taken seriously?
    There are two types of people in the world: People who love and people who want to be loved.
    A person will recognise true love when they are ready to discover it in themselves (during the course of their lifetime ).

  • ashley November 15, 2011, 2:30 pm

    i lelive me and my girlfriend are in love. we have been together for qiute sometime now (sorry for the bad spelling) and when she’s not around me i feel weird and empty. I love being arounf her every second and she told me she loved me once when we where on a date and i said i love you to. We haven’t kissed yet only because i’m saving that moment for a special time. I love to cuddle with her and hug her all the time. The cool thing baiout her is that i met her at an anime con becak somtime ago and we have been together since a week after the con. She asked me out and i barly knew her name, But im glad she did, cuz i do really love her.

  • parris November 22, 2011, 5:16 pm

    thanks for da help it really help me understand da things dat i will have to take wen i fall in love

  • anisha December 7, 2011, 6:45 pm

    I like a person. But i don’t know is i’m in love with him ?

  • Nyash guy December 22, 2011, 11:13 am

    I know have understood how to keep the ove of my life

  • Nyash guy December 22, 2011, 11:54 am

    I now have understood how to keep the love of my life more smart .

  • lee January 30, 2012, 4:05 pm

    Love is wonderful and sweet………… I want to know more about love

  • Jonathan February 7, 2012, 8:04 pm

    This is great i wish i knew about this before my girl friend broke up with me i need help and advice about what i do or what i might have done wrong please email me i really need help becaus i fell head over heels for this girl and i really do love her. i have done things for her that i have not for others and i have not dated many girls. she is so special to me and shes like me in alot of ways.

  • Gabrielle February 20, 2012, 12:08 am

    This article really made my relationship with my boyfriend more clear to me. It gave me a wonderful insight on the true nature of love and reminded me why I chose him as my partner in the first place…thank you so much for writing this! You have a talented way with words.

  • Donna February 27, 2012, 1:41 pm

    I like this

  • Precious February 29, 2012, 4:07 pm

    It’s true,what u listed.anyone dat loves u wld make u happy.

  • Ifunanya March 2, 2012, 9:59 pm

    From what i have, i think my partner loves me.

  • jodi March 17, 2012, 4:05 am

    sometimes i cant tell if he loves me or if he is in love with me and i am afraid to ask i honestly dont think he is in love with me i think he loves me because i keep the house clean and take care of the checkbook sometimes i feel more like a serveant than a girlfriend he is not a very affection man and i know that and i accept that it is just sometimes i think he takes me for granted and i think he tells me he loves me because thats what i want to hear i am in love in him very much but like i said i dont think he is in love with me sometimes i dont know what to do he has a really good sense of humor he takes good care of me financially but somedays i just wish he would give me a hug and say i love you

  • Amanda March 19, 2012, 4:51 am

    from what i have read my partner loves me so much too, but what happens if theres someone else out there that loves you then what happens????????

  • Jared March 23, 2012, 6:54 pm

    I am confused about my girlfriend. when we were first talking and dating she would text back so fast and let me know when she was not going to be able to talk for a while. But now she will text very slow and not tell me when she is going to be gone for a while. I want to talk to her about stuff but it is really hard for me because she will get upset and feel like she’s not good enough and stuff, and then somehow when i say i am upset she is the one who decides not to talk to me for a little while, am i too clingy?

  • natasha davis March 26, 2012, 2:05 pm

    i like this alott but im still confused about me and my boyfriend . but i likw this shud do more .

  • antonette April 4, 2012, 5:38 am

    love is great!!!!!

  • dhaval singh April 13, 2012, 5:51 am

    yeah!thats nice ..really good to know about love …i really love my chik neelam but i cant tell her.and now i will surely express my love to you dear.can someone help me please .her e-mail id is – (salinajb11@gmail.com) on facebook.please help me coz i really love her!!!!i love you dear

  • lion May 11, 2012, 6:34 pm

    thank u so much!

  • teddy June 19, 2012, 2:23 pm

    i really think that i am loosing my mind the way i love my partner.we were close at the first time but now things are out of line.i am really scared of loosing him becouse he is the most important thing that never happend in my life.please help me weather i should sleep with him or not becouse thats what we faight about.

  • teddy June 19, 2012, 2:26 pm

    i really love my partner but we always fight about weather i should sleep with him or not and i dont want to loose him in my life.what should i do.please help me.a.s.a.p.

  • Mabel June 28, 2012, 11:56 pm

    I wish I could fast forward to the day i meet the person I’m going to merry…
    I know it takes time to find your significant other but i hope i find that person soon.!

  • thoughts July 4, 2012, 1:44 pm

    Love, you got to love it and hate it at the same time. It makes you feel so great, but at other times so low. In a relationship, love is like a reflection of life, or the life you want. morals, beliefs, standards , and all that stuff is involved. Priorities. Men and women have different priorities. therefore we love differently or have a different way about it. If not intially checked appropriately, love takes a down turn eventually. Divorce being the end result for older couples. So even tho the love is there, the priorities are not. That creates tension in relationships. But it doesn’t mean the other person doesn’t love you. It just means they’re living love thru their eyes and thoughts. And if its true love, then you can see past that. Nothing is impossible. True love makes you feel that way. I should start my own blog!! so many perspectives on love. Which can be life for some people.

  • adriaan July 4, 2012, 11:32 pm

    well i dont know how to put this but i defnitly need advice my female partner lives with me and we have a child together sho onec cheated on me but in the begining of oure relaitionship but i gave here a second chance coz everyone deserves one right wel to make a long story short its now 7 chances later my friend say i am crazy and they ask me why am i doin it i even tried doing the thing she did to me to hurt here but it doesnt make me feel beter at all i love this girl so much i think it might be posible that i am blindfolded by love the way i see it is i love her i wanto be with here and i know that she want the same but why does it feel that im lacking trust can it be because i alredy exided the limits of chances or is the problem lying on me pleas advice would defnitly be helpfull

  • Cloye July 19, 2012, 8:56 pm

    Well what do you do if you are let down a lot, like little mistakes that repeat themselves. Sure you can love someone with all you have, but if you keep forgetting or sometimes choosing the wrong thing. What does the person being hurt do?

  • Janny July 21, 2012, 7:16 pm

    I know dat my patner really love but more advice

  • Thomass Scott July 24, 2012, 8:14 am

    I was reading this and I must admit that I’m bit sceptical. I’m in relationship with a beautiful stunning kind hearted girl that I absolutely adore and love. I enjoy every moment with her and we are good together as the relationship just flows and develop out of it’s own. One thing that really greats my ass is that she is not a emotional person and I am…. I tell her frequently how I feel about her and all I get is a smile…. yes the physical part of the relationship is good but yeah I need to hear it also how she feels about us…. I did get advice that I must be patient and give it time and that you can’t rush emotions especially love….. but on three occasions has she said she would let me know how she feels but to date nothing….. so what must I do?

  • Abby July 28, 2012, 2:09 pm

    My sister is 21 and she likes this guy like a lot! However me and our parents dont approve so i dont really know what to do i mean hes kinda of horrible to me he drinks,and hes just bad and i dont want to be his sister in law and ive cryed a lot about this subject she lies a LOT to go to his house to see him and who knows to do what else i really dont know what to do!! I dont even know if he truly loves her or not!! =(

  • Abby July 28, 2012, 2:18 pm

    And so i was reading this to try and figure out if he really loves her and if they do get married will they wanna divorce after that?

  • khanya July 29, 2012, 7:09 pm

    hai my name is khanyisa yeh ths article tels m a lot about lv bt im more confused me nd ma man used 2 lov ich other bt now its jst a fyt we spent 5 years together,he usualy sent m nyc nd romantic sms bt knw wen i snt hm an sms not even a responce he jst tel m that he lv m bt previously he realy lvd m compared to da article bt now im not sure nd i do need lv any who can help m bcoz i lv him realy

  • Agglove July 31, 2012, 10:58 am

    Its so lovely to read this article of love, i really get alot so far i love psychology of relationship and marriage i take some note for friends who didnt visit this page, im not in love may be later it will help me alot.

  • alva August 7, 2012, 7:40 am

    “”‘i want to know more please ad more sign that i can say it is true.

  • john August 10, 2012, 1:17 am

    hey so me and my gf have been dating for almos 4 months haha yeah ik its a short time but its been more then i could ever ask for haha like idk just everything about her ive loved i dont have many expectaions and don have many standards except have fun with me laugh a my totally stupid jokes and dont hurt me and i wont hurt you but lately things dont seem kind of right? like weve been saying we love each other now and idk if its true because when ever i think about it my stomach hurts and i get a bit knocious but i mean like shes all ive ever waned i just dont know whats wrong? like i mean she says she wont hurt me but sometimes its hard to believe i just need some help please like idk what to do any more lol… like i wana be with her more then anything and i just need to know whats wrong cause i mean we talk about a future together but like it seems so unreal cause its so good? like she treats me so right but sometimes i just worry that im not enough for her? i need someones honest opinion

  • sona August 18, 2012, 1:53 pm

    i iuv u mdc.i know u also luv me.i want to b with u till of my death

  • bgriffin August 26, 2012, 11:46 pm

    My boyfriend for six years would not move in with me he say because of my attitude. And smart mouth!!!!!

  • Adesina Horlatunji October 9, 2012, 3:54 pm

    I think we loves each other but as of now the distance between us is what is bugging my mind

  • Katrina October 12, 2012, 1:53 am

    im in a relationship with my bdoyfriend and hes 14 anf im 13 he says he loves me blablabla and i realllly love him but hes so i dont know how to put it but he jas another girlfriend.and me and him have been on and off alot and this other girls hes with liked him alot nd everything blabla but i dont know her shes just a mystery girl to me nd he says he loves me but how can i kniw during school we cant talk cuz i cant speak to him on school grounds and after school i can but when he heads home he comes like at 7 and his curfew is at 8:30 so idk what he could be doing i mean i love him with all my heart but i dont know anymore i mean when we broke up i still loved him alot but it was going away little bits just im like realy confused if he loves m i mean the first to times we were together he showed me his love nd the third kinda the fourth not really the fith just a little …….excetera and then the rest he stoped showing it nd i was the one that broke up with him cuz i didnt want to get hurt yes i was very insecre now im not much now im just like ok whatever but i kinda do get made nd yes i was made.about the mystery girl because i really love him nd i dont like the fact hes with someone else! im like so confused on what to do?

  • chisom October 13, 2012, 10:45 pm

    i no nt even noin,am such dat he loves me.love u baby

  • crystal October 16, 2012, 1:39 pm

    seriously love is hard but one thing i do know is stay true to yourself through love and the ones you love you can lose yourself and it can really damage a lot and o matter what stay positive and never give up : )

    angel 444 ever

  • Ali October 24, 2012, 7:48 pm

    Reading this, Now I do 100% Believe that my partner loves me very much too! its hard to learn and trust that someone loves you very much like they say, But i guess its all about believin in your self!

  • shazna November 4, 2012, 4:15 pm

    love is long. Life is short.

    Love is not a game.

    thank you sooooooo much.

  • shaun rck November 11, 2012, 4:39 pm

    Vee i still love you the same way since the day i first met you with all of my heart. I cant give up on us and your the fuel to my heart without you i am empty and dying. I was a fool in lettting you go and not fighting for you. You were more than a friend to me and very close to my heart. I was a fool in not always showing you how much you ment to me and i should have done more in showing you how much i loved you. It breaks my heart in not being with you and so far away from you. I still remember the first day i met you you were wearing a peach apricot top and your smile was one of the reasons i fell in love with you. I never wanted you to changed nor did i ask of you to do so my Angel. Please stay who you are and never change for nobody All my love Shaun

  • Stephanie November 14, 2012, 3:49 am

    With wat I read I really do thnk ma husband luvs me, we been thru tick & thin & always there for eachother & he does anythng to make me happy, but wat I dnt understand is why he cheated??

  • Hamida November 14, 2012, 5:25 am

    4rm da article i red i think sam pipo nid 2 play a more nice trick 2 mak dem bilive dat dey a loved,communication is da key 2 a successful ending & i thank who wrote da article 4 opening closed gates 4 mani of youths nowadayz

  • nnurom collins November 16, 2012, 11:11 pm

    swt is love bt love is pain am scared

  • promise November 23, 2012, 6:22 am

    Fragile heart could be alittle get confused abt pple,,,,thinking Ў☺ΰ are loved whereas they are…..

  • keabetswe makhothi November 24, 2012, 4:53 pm

    I really love him but he doe’s not believe,I dont know how must show him.

  • prince ezyo November 27, 2012, 1:48 pm

    Wow …..!!! I really appreciate but Mh I need to know more about love…………….can anyone help me please?….

  • Kimpa December 29, 2012, 7:08 am

    WOw dat gr8 u hav a point i tink my wyf lv me

  • Kelly December 30, 2012, 12:58 am

    Me and my bf have been together a couple of months but he has changed a lot since we first got together he is always out and i hardly see him he tells me he loves me and he dont want to lose me but i dont know if he does i love him loads but there is no point in being with someone who dont feel the same

  • ASHLEY January 14, 2013, 5:03 am

    I figured my boyfriend loves me…. but reading this just signed, and sealed it… if this is true, then i have something good on my hands… and ill never let him go. I love him with all my heart and its obvious that he loves me …

  • ANNETAH January 29, 2013, 7:24 am

    love is great you feel woe wen you are with a better half.so special wen things are okay but since i get married have realized that love is like class work you need to work extra hard to keep it burning never look for what vyour partner can do for you but what youcan do for him or her if you are wife try to cook nice meals, a warm welcome after work even if you were at work dont mind do it heartedly, keep his clothes neat, the house warm bath with him i really love it my love i love you so much i long to be with you every time tho we are both at work . i love you love love you.please be sending this advice to me regularly pls

  • marcky February 7, 2013, 1:47 pm

    I just love it,am going to do my best to have a true love in my life,to be in a true love just so swty,I hope Brian is my true love,

  • Horselover March 26, 2013, 9:56 pm

    Im 9 and I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now (inlove)

    Love is a strange feeling

  • Jeff May 19, 2013, 3:42 am

    The most common source of problems in marriages is that the couple misinterpreted their mutual feelings of attraction as love. This normally results in the couple trying to keep up appearances after about 5 years, and wondering where the love went.

    It is important to know that attraction is an emotional feeling that may fade, while love is a promise that has nothing to do with attraction. Love is a promise to do 4 things.
    1. To accept everything that you know and do not know about him now.
    2. To accept him as you both age – for better of worse, richer or poorer, sickness or health for as long as you both shall live. Even if he is disfigured by an accident or crippled by illness, you accept him.
    3. To forgive him later. Since neither of you is perfect, you both depend on each others’ forgiveness.
    4. To encourage him to improve. This 4th one gives purpose to your relationship – otherwise it will get boring.

    If you are both ready to make and keep these promises to each-other, then you are ready to love. When you keep them, you demonstrate your love for each-other.

    Source: Attraction is a feeling. Love is a Promise. by Grenville Phillips, president of Walbrent College. (Loveisapromise.wordpress.com)

  • Quin June 5, 2013, 11:02 am

    This post is great. I love my significant other so much, i cant believe it at times. Shes my everything and always will be. I love you Nicole :). Always always.

  • neema June 28, 2013, 7:54 pm

    he always telling me dats he loves me and I know believe that’s he do

  • Obiorah chinecherem June 30, 2013, 6:52 am

    I love my paternal and with what i read is like he cheating on me because he spend less time with me and dnt like hanging out with me …. Is like i will end the relationship

  • gary cudney July 30, 2013, 6:42 am

    I found my true love

  • Nwa-father August 4, 2013, 1:06 pm

    I lost my friend ,and i need a good person who can love.i fine it difficult to fall in love again add mikey junior or +2348060635164.

  • dee September 1, 2013, 11:10 pm

    We ‘re inlov with each other, we show it publicly anywre,anytymn nd our parent knw abt us buh am jus confuse bcoz she disappoints me sumtymz nd I get weird abt it..I nid advice pls

  • maliga October 7, 2013, 3:41 pm

    many people says love is blind love is finding some one who will always stand by yiu through thick and thin and just been there when times are tough being your friend when you need a shoulder to cry on love is not awlays a bed of roses

  • Saya_18 January 13, 2014, 3:32 pm

    my man and I have been together 6-7 years together and we have went through heck to be together , yea at times he may be a little insensitive, and everything but, I still love him and I know he loves me.

  • Bene January 25, 2014, 8:37 pm

    Love is swter than honey when it comes from
    the Lord

  • sam February 6, 2014, 5:51 am

    true love is not about planning the future together, true love is not about talking for hours, its not about kissing or dating, its.not about who thinks the same as you , its not about who is rich, who looks good….. TRUE LOVE IS WHEN SOMEONE HOLDS ON EVEN IF HE/SHE IS GOING THROUGH HELL. ITS ABOUT WHO WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU.

  • alexis de sango oforianto April 18, 2014, 3:01 am

    infact i’ve learnt more lession here n i do tink she luv me any how i am n i also luv her deeply in my heart….

  • Barbie July 2, 2014, 11:11 am

    with wat ave read,i bliv ma partner reali luvs me

  • Thabang October 16, 2014, 1:09 pm

    I do knw mi galfrnd luvs m nd I hope m nd her we go far,in mi hand I saw a gud future btwin I nd mi luv.(I’ll always luv u)

  • MosesProffitt November 8, 2014, 4:58 am

    I Found my true love in an dating site and we are together since 5 years.

  • olive o olive November 13, 2014, 11:20 am

    with all that I have read,i think a’m not doing well in my reletionship

  • mathew November 30, 2014, 4:34 pm

    nw i knw dat my partner s cheating. She every time busy with another guy.n saying me that i.m always feel for u. She s cheater. Thanks god saved me from this hell. Ur loved me so much. Sorry lord.

  • Katrina December 9, 2014, 12:22 am

    I found this to be very helpful…

  • fezeka December 24, 2014, 10:18 pm

    wow my boyfriend trully loves.i lv u 2 mpho

  • Thandiswa December 29, 2014, 12:09 pm

    I love my boyfriend Simon and i will stay with him Throung the ups and the downs.And I hope our relationship will last longer.

  • Nada January 13, 2015, 7:42 am

    I luv ma bf but we ar far 4rm each other i no he luv mi but am afrid we had some misunderstanding with him dis yr n since he left hd has not cal me like before i fel like there z no luv b/n us any more

  • luke February 28, 2015, 3:58 pm

    Absolutely eye opening. It was and has and is still there. Sometimes we must look deeper and past certain obstacles to realize this.
    # blessed

  • nash,bebs April 2, 2015, 10:04 pm

    i love it

  • Amanda April 11, 2015, 9:26 pm

    I like ur point bt i want some help about my lv he rlly lv me bt now if i see is not mucher dan last tym he frst dating me

  • Joy April 11, 2015, 9:39 pm

    First of all let me thank you so much for sharing your ideas or your experiences with the world. It is a real eye opening and very kind of you to do this, you must have helped so many people all over the world and changed and influenced their lives, today you have opened my eyes that there is so much to learn in Love. Love has so many depths to be explored I thought so far what i saw in telly and observed is nothing compared to your article it is really something else. Thank You, You see I Love and Adore someone so much but by reading your versed you have taught me so much more, no one I mean no one gives in such detailed version and thank you for sharing your knowledge and experiences. I hope you have a wonderful life and lots of happiness as you have and will give to so many more. Thank you.

  • youngson June 19, 2015, 2:29 pm

    From what have read I don’t think things are okay for me because we just know each other and yet am the one who is in love with her now I don’t know to her side because she doesn’t show up but her family likes me a lot the only problem is with her what cane I do but have not told her yet that am inlove with her we are steel friends now how should I start this?your help will be highly appriciated…..

  • V.ja June 29, 2015, 8:52 am

    my girlfriend she is pretending not to love me but her action is otherwise so am confuse rightnow.

  • Remo July 18, 2015, 5:07 pm

    Am 16 and my third day at boarding there was a boy who had these strong feelings for me.To be honest i was not really into him i fell for his friend,as time went on i realized that these boy who had feelings for me is not that bad actually.He couldn’t come to me and tell me that he thinks am beautiful coz he was a little bit afraid to face me.
    Now as time went on i started to have some feelings for him too.The big problem is he doesn’t show anymore that he loves me but i can tell he does coz when he sees me he look at somebody or something else.When i see him my hurt beats fast,i always think of him and i love him i sometimes wonder if he feels the same way too

  • fortunate July 24, 2015, 8:44 pm

    love is something that can be never explain,im so inlove with my boyfriend,i wish i can spend the rest of my life with him….

  • Lashay August 8, 2015, 12:25 am

    This article confirmed what I have been feeling for the last 6months or so.
    My partner once told me during an argument, that she was no longer in love with me.. Then a few weeks later said she was again… The mouth assures me that I am loved and desired … But the others don’t. She had picked up drug use, stays on her phone excessively , and never wants to go anywhere with me. She also told me that I’m needy… Sometimes I think of ways to tell her it’s over.. So she can move on and be happy with someone else.. She is clearly not happy with me.
    What’s is a girl to do?

  • hureratu September 4, 2015, 10:12 am

    to be in love is very nice but nicer when you kow someone love you too.

  • kusum September 24, 2015, 3:31 am

    I m loving from 2 years with my girl freind but i one day i dipet with her after then she leave me .is she lov me yet or not i dont know

  • Shazz September 26, 2015, 12:25 pm

    I’m 5mnths preg,i lv ma bf n he z hpy wth us bt ther z a gal who always col and send hm watsup massages teln hm that their bby is grwng n he mst cum c d bby thou she knws dat he lvz her noMor bt she’l fyt until he cares wth d bby. My bf tels m dat he dnt hv a bby wth any1 and evn swearz to God dat they usd condm wth dat gal…i dnt knw wat 2do frm nw,wat f he z rly d fathr?…confused

  • vishnu vp October 2, 2015, 4:42 pm

    Love is realy great ….

  • Ananda October 7, 2015, 6:07 am

    Hi I found love… I first met him when I was 13 years old. He even took me home and carried my books. He held the door open for and we were really close. My parents got divorced and I moved very far away. I didnt see him after that for along time. I almost forgot about him there had been so many years that had past by. Then one day my brother had brought some of his friends home and I was getting ready for work and I looked in my livingroom and there he was. I was 40 years old. Our eyes locked and I said that he looked very familure. We couldnt take our eyes off each other. We startted talking and we starttec remembering each other all over again. I was so happy to see him remembering the way we were. Ee startted seeing each other and Ifell so in love with him. I woke up thinking about him. Hell I even thought about him all day. Even when I went to sleep. I did everything I could to show him that loved him , in everyway.Iwrote letters and poems of mylove. I got very ill and nearly died

  • Ananda October 7, 2015, 6:26 am

    Like I said I was near death and I lost our child. When this happened I was so sad. He didnt know yet and tried to tell him . But I had alot of health issues that had and still do. I wait for another surgery. My intestines had 7 inches cut out and we startted having problems seeing each other cause we lived far away from each other. I lost my house and everything I had. I would call and leave a message saying how much I missed him and telling him that I loved him . Not getti.g a call back. Later he met someone but he didnt say anything. We talked on the phone about our future and he told me that he loved me and that was the last thing he said to me. Later a year later I went to see him and to see if he was ok. His mother told me he was ingadged. Ripped my heart out. I havent talked to him in 2 years now. I heard he got merried. In my heart I know that he loves me and I feel he will be back. My question is should I take him back when he comes back. Part of me still wants him back but he broke my heart so bad that I have had counciling for my dapression, and attepts of suicide. Its been really hard for me getting over him.

  • Mapule Mapule October 8, 2015, 10:33 am

    My boyfriend keeps on asking m ths question…What can i do to show u dat I Lov U?I mean like i became so blank pls giv an idea or myb jst put a ring on it?…

  • queen October 9, 2015, 11:47 pm

    I think i love this

  • felicia wesley October 24, 2015, 1:55 am

    Am afraid of losing my boy based on what am reading here I want a help to win his heart I love him so much and don’t want to loose him.

  • segni takebegna November 24, 2015, 12:42 pm

    It is more invaluable issue, that everyone is hanging out. Even, no one is perfect with love, everyone needs to be pure and offers to go through, but the most important thing is to be the true rather than to be perfect.

  • Tricia December 15, 2015, 7:17 pm

    Indid love has got itz magic n it truely exist!!!

  • Ambrose December 28, 2015, 9:08 am

    From what i have read,looks like am on probability,my patnet keeps giving excuses of iam working.what can i do???

  • xaisha December 28, 2015, 3:11 pm

    True luv NVR die …..I wish my partner still luv me till she last breath of my life….

  • diana January 26, 2016, 7:42 am

    have realy wat hv read, hoping tht I wil practise it wen I get my man,

  • lynnette Dibo January 31, 2016, 3:01 pm

    I have been in a relationship with my guy for about 2 years but aint sure if he loves me

  • Zoya February 20, 2016, 12:04 pm

    This is a very nice platform

  • VINCENT April 11, 2016, 8:16 pm

    I rly luv kgomotso mosiea coz am bcz of her

  • VINCENT April 12, 2016, 5:44 am

    I,m in luv with KG dat lady she make me a man coz she born my firstson

  • Rachael April 27, 2016, 2:24 am

    I have been in a relationship for 25 years. Me and my partner started at 14&15 years old. We have four children now and a granddaughter. He hasn’t ever helped 50/50, he has cheated numerous times, denies it even if I got an std. And tries to turn it on me and make me the bad person even when I have our kids 24/7. He is in prison now for 10 1/2 years and so far it’s been just over 4 years. He is verbally abusive and mentally. Physically he is not. He wants me to be respectful and stay sullabute till he comes home and if I don’t he will never look at me petals to me again. So he says. I have always been faithful but I question myself why? Is he with it? Does he really love? Will he change? He says he is better now and he respects me. Of coarse he’s in prison so of course he going to say that. But really why do I stay? Because all I can think of is that I don’t really even have a family and he does. I am so very close with his family and they love me as if I am their family and they fulfill my emptiness. I struggle taking care of everyone but I barely scraping by. So I question if he still loves me? Do I even know what love is? I don’t even know how to love anymore. All this how to know stuff does tell me things that do make since. I even tried. Him not so much. But he won’t let me go! I’m so confused to what I need to do or just walk away. I’m so alone and have no one. Been feeling lost for years and scared to leave.

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  • Desiree August 18, 2016, 7:49 am

    I just recently got out of a year and a half relationship and yes I know an believe he loves me a lot he does a lot in what I have read and plus if I could get an email I would appreciate it I would like to ask a question but don’t know the answer to it

  • Lily feng September 12, 2016, 2:23 pm

    I fed ma mind with neqative fouts n worries. But it’s all clear to me now that he had really loved me since our childhood. Love is life!

  • sonia September 13, 2016, 6:08 am

    its happy to know that the person u love loves in return god bless u all

  • unga September 23, 2016, 8:07 pm

    i hate love

  • Rocky November 12, 2016, 5:13 pm

    If anyb0dy falls in L0ve with me. . What d0 u thinK w0uLd b the reas0n f0r it …

  • Rebecca November 25, 2016, 9:35 pm

    Love is a wonderful thng,m realy heart broken 2dae i called my boyfrnd wanting 2knw hw h is doing n hw ws his dae.thngs ddnt g as i planned u guys wil nvr blv wat h said 2me,h tld m dat h is wth hs new gf n m disturbing hm,h then drop da phne while m talkng 2hm,then i cld hm many tym h dnt answr okay i live hm alne,aftr sme few hour h send m a call bck saying h was joking h lve me.i ignored hs msgs.we r on long distance relationship.i dnt knw wat 2do pls help guys

  • Aman February 3, 2017, 7:24 am

    i really need a gf

  • Someone February 16, 2017, 2:11 am

    Its pretty sad i got played and he obviously was very good at it he did everything on the i love you section its amazing the length some people go to to hurt someone.

  • nto March 8, 2017, 12:02 am

    how should i beliefe that my boyfriend really lives me

  • James Aleph March 31, 2017, 10:52 pm

    I’m madly in love with a girl but i feel so insecure because i find it hard to détermine if she truely loves me. Its true she’s told me several times she loves me but i still doubt her because her actions don’t prove it. She hardly calls me nor care much about my life even though i try hard to satisfy her, but each time i call her she’ll always act like she misses me so much. I’m obsessed with this relationship and i dont really know whether i should save it by giving it time or just let it go because it gets me worried all the time. Please help…

  • James Aleph March 31, 2017, 11:00 pm

    The first and best person to date in life is yourself. Another person may break your heart but you will never let your lovely heart down

  • Christee June 9, 2017, 8:41 am

    I read a few of the comments below and sadly I was shocked at how many people misspell simple words! Or use incorrect wording in a sentence. Come on people. Get it together! It’s embarrassing! Seriously! Use spell check if your unsure of a spelling. Get a dictionary and read it! Sound out words slowly, then type them. Double check your post. Read books for pleasure! Reading on a regular basis is wonderful for your vocabulary! Go back to school. What in the world are schools doing theses days if people cant spell? So very very sad!

  • sathya July 7, 2017, 7:05 am

    love is a wonderful thing it is very precoius.

  • sathya July 7, 2017, 7:07 am

    i am going to meet my lover for the first time on july 12th.

  • Hayley Edmonds August 4, 2017, 10:47 pm

    I confided in my boyfreind tonight about the bullys my sisters have caused throughout yrs many times! me. my sister took the piss out of me one day and denied it and told me to give my head a wobble and my boyfreind laughed and thought it was halarious (the give ur head a wobble bit)even though he new it had caused me great pain mnts before while in my presence he said i just thought it was funny she could say something like that!! Please please am i wrong? Why this immature reaction? i said i confided in you you should of shook ur head and said shes a bitch or whatever but not laugh and smile at my face ive been a mess all night i just carnt cope.

  • thulazee August 13, 2017, 1:28 pm

    I’ve been dating dis guy for 8 months but he never showed lov to me…Am de 1 who always trying by all mins,whever we fight evn if he’s wrong am de 1 to apologize~~I’m rely confused if de guyz loves me or not but I do love him a lot plz help

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  • christy October 8, 2017, 3:45 pm

    wow tnks

  • Ali hassan November 9, 2017, 10:27 am

    she does love me a lot

  • Harry November 26, 2017, 1:46 pm

    love is true when both are happy,what i have seen through this,i have much to do to make my girl happy because this will be as a lesson to me,am in love with a damsel but i can prove it in anywhere

  • charlotte January 24, 2018, 3:23 pm

    i like this

  • clady January 31, 2018, 1:08 pm

    l love my friend so much but lm very scared to profess my love to her.

  • Batmansbestfriend April 24, 2018, 1:14 pm

    Okay, what nobody ever tells you:

    1. If you do not get a “good morning” text the day after the first date then you should probably end it because she/he doesn’t care about you.
    2. Whoever sends the “good morning” text the day after the first date (not the responder) might be a clingy nut job and that’s why they’re sending it so always ask why they said good morning.
    3. How else will you know if they’re clingy unless you ask. You can just ask “are you clingy?” but most women won’t appreciate that so you can ask something like “how much time do expect to spend with me if I decide you’re worth dating?” or something like that.
    4. Guys can ask “do these jeans make me look fat” too (and not just gay guys) so please do ask because some guys are fat.
    5. If she asks you if anything makes her look fat, the proper response is “fatter than what” because c’mon, all things being relative you’ve gotta have a comparison otherwise you could be lying…and women hate liars
    6. All women hate liars, so don’t lie (exaggerate if you have to or just and buy a thesaurus and read up if you must, but don’t tell lies…i.e. get creative).
    7. If she says she isn’t ready to go to the bedroom by date 5 she’s leading you on.
    8. If you haven’t kissed before date 2 starts, she’s leading you on.
    9. Any walking where hand holding could happen during date one, it should be done or she’s leading you on.
    10. If she offers to pay then you’ve been friendzoned, run for the hills.
    11. If she fails to laugh at ANY joke you tell, she’s just not that interested in you.
    12. If she doesn’t share your opinion of your car (good or bad) then you’re not clicking…do ask.
    13. If she likes a genre of music you don’t…end it NOW.
    14. If she eats more than you on ANY date…even one bite that could mean she was once fat and lost the wait and is in danger of putting it all back on. Ask yourself: do you really want to date attack of the killer blob?
    15. If she’s adopted always ask if she knows her family medical history.
    16. If she’s not adopted then ask to see a picture of her mother by date 3 so you know if she’ll suddenly turn into a sea monster at some point.
    17. Ask how long she expects to date you before she will marry you on the first date so you know if you’re wasting your time (or hers)…she’ll appreciate it.
    18. Compliment her cheeks (face not but) women love that.
    19. First time she sees your bedroom you should have stuffed animals on the bed.
    20. Women love guys who display guns, lots of guns…it’s a sense of security so mention that you own guns up front.
    21. Women hate guys who drive green cars.
    22. Women love guys who don’t care about their jobs.
    23. Wearing the same clothes (wash them though) on multiple dates shows consistency and that you’re father material.
    24. Knowing all the text abbreviations and always using them will show you’re hip.

  • jentah July 30, 2018, 11:48 am

    what of if he truly loves you,,,,,and u came in to find that he stills having his first lover,,,,whaat should u do

  • Bobby April 23, 2019, 3:39 pm

    There’s this girl in my department that I think loves me but scared to tell me. Prior to this I refrained from theBay kindness I showered her. Few months later she started acting up;saying that I am wicked because on our convocation ceremony I had her standing up for me. Anyway I apologized to her but she wouldn’t forgive and let it go. She called me several names which I didn’t like. Before now I had asked that we defined our relationship but she blurted that we should forget about anything between us. So I want to know if she really loves me or Not?

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